Sylvester Eugene Hayes Jr.

Sylvester Eugene Hayes, Jr. passed away peacefully on Monday, December 11, 2023. Gene was born on August 1, 1947, in Charlotte, NC, to Sylvester Eugene Hayes, Sr. and Bernice Sarah Hayes. As the oldest of eleven children, he took his responsibility as the eldest seriously and did his best to look out for his brothers and sisters. Gene spent his early years in the Bronx, NY, where he graduated from James Monroe High School and obtained his BA from City College of New York, where he played basketball and joined the brotherhood of Phi Beta Sigma fraternity, Alpha Delta Chapter in the Spring of 1967. He later relocated to Charlotte, NC in the early 1980s and even though his city changed, his passion for basketball never faded. He continued to share his love for basketball as a coach, impacting the lives of many young players and fostering a sense of camaraderie and growth on the court. Gene's ability to connect extended far beyond the basketball court. He was also an avid photographer and videographer, capturing countless precious moments for his family and friends. Through his lens, he preserved memories and found a way to express his artistry and capture the essence of those he loved. He was a true people person, creating deep and lasting friendships wherever he went. Gene's natural warmth instantly puts people at ease, making them feel valued and cherished in his presence. His genuine interest in others and his kind-hearted nature made him the kind of person that people gravitated towards. Whether through a shared passion for basketball, a captivating photograph, or a heartfelt conversation, he made everyone feel seen, heard, and valued in his presence. The relationships Gene formed throughout his life were a testament to his warmth and genuine spirit. He believed in the power of building connections and fostering positive relationships, leaving an indelible mark on the hearts of those who knew him. In the hearts of Gene's loved ones, he will always remain a source of love, light, and guidance. He is survived by his eight children, as well as two sons-in-law and two daughters-in-law. He also leaves behind thirteen grandchildren who brought joy to his life. Among his extended family are four brothers (with two brothers predeceased) and three sisters (with one sister predeceased). Additionally, he is remembered by three aunts, two uncles, numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and a multitude of friends who were touched by his presence and will forever hold him in their hearts. He will be remembered for his love of basketball, being the life of the party, and his infectious laughter and dry sense of humor.

Sylvester Eugene Hayes Jr.

August 1, 1947 - December 11, 2023